The Sheba Attitude® is a paradigm shift in the way a young lady thinks and feels about the actions of people in her life. It is a shift  away from blaming others for her feelings (ex: "You made me angry").  It is a shift toward  recognizing the ways in which her own internal self-talk or  thoughts may create her feelings (ex: "I get so angry when I think about what you did"). When a young lady blames another, she admits helplessness in controlling her feelings. Some may even feel like puppets. Under these circumstances, relief comes when the cause (someone else's behavior) is changed. Such young ladies may go to great lengths to persuade another to change their behavior so she can feel better!. Many act as if it were easier to change another person's behavior than to change their own. Nothing could be further from the truth!

A young lady with the Sheba Attitude® spends less effort thinking about how to control another's behavior in order to relieve her distress. She spends more time thinking about how her own thinking directly creates her emotions. When viewed this way, we can understand the childhood phrase "sticks and stones may break my bones, but names (ex: what other people say) cannot hurt me."

In the Daughters of Sheba 101 class, you will begin to learn how to set your own life goals and to make yourself feel good even without a guy. As a result you will have more say-so in your dating with guys including no sex or sex with a condom. In this class, health literature will be discussed and distributed. In this class you will also learn The ABC's of Sheba Attitude® Developement and the Four Female Personality Types. Debra Ann Brodie,Ph.D.

Daughters of Sheba classes are for young ladies 13 thru 20 years of age.

                              Randis Participant  & Wanakee Exec. Director